Hey guys!
Nice to meet you all.
I'm relatively new to the game. I was introduced to the infamous 'The Game' when I was about 15, at the time I was a total social introvert and unable to even look at other classmtes in the eye. I Spent two hours appraoching (not hard core, but nonetheless) and massively transformed myself less into a 'player' but more into a 'relatively normal guy' Anyway, at 17 I *lucked* out and met a really hot, and great girlfriend who I ended up in having a relationship with for 7 years. I slept with one other girl whilst in that relationship, rather guility, when my girlfriend was away for a night on a
ONS. My grand total score is 3 (lol...)
In the end, I ended the relationship as I felt there was much more to life than I was experiencing, and that naggling feeling in the back of my mind knowing that I should have expanded myself and spent the early 20's of my life learing about myself and expanding myself even more.
So since I ended the relationship in March/April, I started getting back into Pick Up (following RSD advice) and went out solidly (4-5 nights per week) wit ha wing buddy who is also an old friend from school, and have achieved moderate improvements in confidence, a few makeouts here and there, and a Tinder lay but nowhere near the levels of improvements that I've been looking to make.
I'm now looking to really step it up, and make more use of the nights I'm goign out in and to push past my comfort zone.
I'm a normal enough guy, some idiosyncratic personality traits back from my introverted, all-night playing video games type of years, but now I'm deeply in the self-development zone and have been practising kickboxing, weight lifting, eating right, reading every night and dabbled in medittion over the last 6 months, along with making much more of an effort to expand my social skills.
I'm looking for any likeminded people, preferably ofa similar age (18-35) to meet up with and to growth with, I'm based in York so this is a preference
If you're interested in saying Hi, please do so
I'm looking forward to learning from you guys, and contributing where possible to your community.
Cheers
Johnny.