The saying, "You can take take a man out of the Ghetto, but you can't take the Ghetto out of the man".
Comes to mind. This is exactly what we're trying to do here on this site.. Changing ourselves for the better, to be able to believe that we are better men who deserve not only attractive women, but to better ourselves in other areas of our lives.

This man was given an opportunity and didn't grab it.

Personally, I'd rather be the man who took that money and not only changed my life, but made a difference in the lives of the people around me.

This man is the perfect example of life being mostly inner game...