@kowalski

By 'pull' I mean 'pick up', 'approach', 'seduce'.... however you wish to word it.
I'm totally useless at it and I'm fearfull of doing it... so that's why I don't talk to the 20 odd that I see on a regular basis... I just choke up and my mind goes blank. If the ice is broken.. say at mates party or work do... Fine. .. no problems there. I can keep the conversation/interest going, but I wouldn't dream of approaching at a pub or club... way too much competition!
To be able to get a number from a chick that i like the look of would be empowering to say the least!