@kowalski
cheers dude.... this is exactly what I needed to hear (I'm being genuine... not sarcastic on this). nice to know there's loads out there.... just haven't got a clue how to get one! (That is also un fortunately the truth too). Also, I expect a degree of 'mental' with females! ! Yes my mates are idiots.... sick and tired of the put downs now!

@top-hot.
love camben and yes your right there's loads more that the fit the ideal down there rather than the town I live in Midlands. I see loads of chicks who are hot but don't fit the ideal and would happily get to know them better... even if just for a casual sex... so I'm not putting myself 'in a box'... I see probably 20 chicks a day who are stunning but not the ideal.
I haven't tried hard enough no.... because I haven't got a the faintest clue how to 'pull' in the traditional idea... and like kowalski said, my mates are idiots and as clueless as me so no one to 'show the way'...hence being on here.

Cheers to you both.... top people!!