Dear all PUA people!!

not sure if this the best section for this so apologies up front if not!

Just wanted to get everyones' feel on the following:
If you're idea of a dream bird is just too high... is it better to just stay single forever or lower your standards and deal with it?

seriously.... whenever I get asked 'whats your ideal bird', I tell them, then they just say 'yeah, but being serious WHAT is your ideal chick as those type of birds YOU are just not gonna get / dont exist '....

Its really starting to get to me now, and I'm forever contemplating accepting just being with anyone who shows some attention!
I've done it all my life before (getting with those that show attention) and I just end up being miserable. I have been in relationSHITS for years due to the fear of being alone, but I'm over that now, and I just don't want to date chicks who aren't what I want.

Am I bad person for feeling this way????