I'm currently reading The Game by Neil Strauss which is always recommend when 1st trying out this stuff.

But the person that's helped me out the most since coming out of my last relationship is a American guy called Corey Wayne, if it wasn't for him I could of seen myself doing something stupid. You can watch 100's of his video's free on YouTube and his book Understanding Relationships can be brought on Amazon at a decent price, it has certainly opened my eyes and highlighted a lot of mistakes I have previously made.

Good luck with it.