I was in a bit of a stinky mood when I wrote that, I'm open to advice. I wouldn't post on here if I wasn't.

I am more selective over the advice I choose to listen too these days that's all.

The reason for that is people love to give advice even when it's ill thought out advice.
An example.

I send a short text message to a girl and she does not respond.
Then some 'guru' gives some advice 'Your texting is shit man, you need to build comfort blah blah'

Well it's fucking easy to give simplistic advice like that.

Why do I intimidate you TopHat? Do you have a man crush on me?