@Nova yeah I need to put some polarity back. I think being in a relationship has made me lazy and I've gotten into some bad habits cos sex is right there all the time.

@Shahanshah well I do lots of stuff for her, generally speaking I get her to come several times for each of mine. I learned massage too as part of my PUA journey so she's well catered for! I am going to talk to her about it but I want to shake up the dynamics as well I think.