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Originally Posted by daleinthedark
Welcome along.
Advice.
- First and foremost - have fun! if you're not enjoying it some of time, you've got the wrong approach to "PU" and maybe even life.
- Go out be social (talk and meet) with everyone. You'll meet girls (and guys) and gain much needed skills/experience in conversation, social dynamics etc. which will help you chat up girls but also helps at work & within social groups
- Don't forget to do other stuff. Constructive stuff that makes your life better like languages, music, arts, etc. It will improve you as a person and make you more interesting to girls but more importantly the former
Books & videos
- Mark Manson's Models - good read that helps you develop yourself.
- RSD blueprint decoded, if you can handle and cut through Tylers marketing I'm so great persona, it might give your balls the extra size they need.
- 30 days of Discipline. It's not PUA but I found it helpful to cut through some of the guff in my life.
Good luck
PS Top-hat likes it when you read his beginners thread here |
I agree what you say about constructive stuff. It dosnt matter how attractive you are, if you are not interesting, people are not going to be interested.
When I first got into
PUA, I also started Kick Boxing and other hobbies when I wasnt sarging. And that helped just as much. If a woman says "What do you do in your free time", saying Pick UP aint gonna get her interested (well it might actually). You need to become an interesting person.
Sure women are fun, but you also need to build a lifestyle.
Think who you want to be, and work towards it.