"Nothing makes me cum more than making a girl cum"

That whole line sums up what you've just written Loki. Your whole everything is to please her. How many more steps up the ladder do you want to put her?

Me and my girlfriend live in different countries, we use skype and facebook to chat most of the time. We practically built oir relationship up over chatting and I cant tell you right now that no matter what you do, if you're not authentic in yourself when you do it, then it will not work or will work temporarily.