Kowalski, I should also add, re the anxiety you mention, that I am only after a very specific type of woman, which are rare, so i want to give my best effort or it will hurt to miss out.

Other woman than this I have no interest in at all. Could i get the women I'm not interested in? Easy, but I'm not interested, and the last thing i want is a string of 'em on which took up my time and I would have to hurtfully drop when something I wanted came along.