You paid 1000 pound deposit? Dude, you've been had, which I guess if sex is what you were looking to get out of this then I'd say you've succeeded since you've just been shafted.

There are hundreds of people claiming to be coaches who will scam gullible people who don't know better, the only way you can grow as a person (which is what I'm guessing you're really after) is to go out on your own and start talking to people.