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Originally Posted by kowalski
Why would you want to do that?
OK, I fancy this girl.
So, how do I get her?
First, I'm going to convince myself she is not attractive.
Then, I'm not going to fancy her any more.
Problem solved.
Why would you still go chat a girl after you've tried to make her unattractive to yourself. That's weird.
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I can only assume this is it, maybe tony77 can shed more light on this mindset? I saw a Julien video where he talks about this, and it came across like he was telling the crowd to somehow devalue in their minds what they thought of the girl, in order to bring her down off that perceived pedestal.
However, all it is doing is temporarily diverting attention from any deeper issues at play. When in fact, plenty of guys want to sit there smelling dirty knickers, and find it hot to watch girls squatting and pissing everywhere.