All I'm saying is why not be be honest in our intentions from the get go? If you express yourself physically and she walks because she's not down we don't have to go through the charade of texting convos and dates that go nowhere.

Another advantage is it would get us used to physical escalation. If you can do it in broad daylight in the street it would seem much easier in a bar or club environment at night.

We both want to get laid. What I'm suggesting is screening for that specifically instead of playing along with girls to get some short-lived validation. We want something to happen either the same day / night or soon after.

I think we're moving in that direction anyway through experience and we'll get what we want if we keep pushing the comfort zone by taking risks.