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Originally Posted by markuk
on the escalator... (I'm so funny)
Okay well with the Korean girl I sat next to her and was trying to initiate, by touching her arm and shit but she just wasn't interested.
The other girls - I'm not really sure what I should have done as regards to escalation.
I'm not really a touchy feely person, which obviously doesn't help.
Know any rapists I can do a boot camp with?
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You're passed the point where socialising counts are a 'good night' - for your journal that is - which is a good thing as that's miles ahead of a lot of people.
Escalation is a hard thing to define or describe in anything that will actually pull: its whatever you do that leads the situation closer to the pull. A few that never fail are isolation, eye contact and proximity. Even then I pulled a girl I barely even touched or got close to until we were back at mine.
I guess its isolating and leading to somewhere to fuck that count as the escalation I'm talking about. You don't need to be making out, groping and all that, you just need to switch it from 'two people who just met and talking' to 'two people who met and are together now'.