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Originally Posted by Shahanshah
In my experience I used to always do texts that were straight away 'hey wanna go for a drink' etc no fucking about, and I found that to never lead anywhere. I find best is to get chatting, a laugh and a flirt then ask for the drink as a natural progression from there. It's what seemed to help me anyway. And your first text, personally, was weak, you have to give them a reason to respond. Even if the reason is simply asking a question.
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What Shah said. Don't leave it a whole day or more, that's just leaving her time to forget who the hell she met. Strike while the iron's hot.
The whole question thing seems to be a hot potato in
pua world, with some advising never to ask questions (bit of a dumb rule). I just find whatever comes to mind, related from the meeting is the way forward, no need to overthink or over-edit your messages. Go with the flow and express yourself.