I grew up being the only male in the house (there was 6 of us) so yea.. thats why I ended up being such a beta, as did most guys who eventually got "good" with women. Also women have always fascinated me, so I pay a lot of attention. Pretty much the same as anything in life, experience.. I got sick of the friendzone, and decided to get clued up, spent about 6 months reading, until I eventually stopped being such a pussy and started taking action. Few years later I'm loving every minute of it.