Cenzy,
I play poker. Not those tournaments you see on t.v., cash games. There is no winning and losing. There are winning players and losing players. You see, I can sit down at a table, make nothing but the right decisions for three hours straight, and still be down for that session. I can go sit down, make a lot of mistakes, and still be up for the session. The point is, it's about making the right moves, the right decisions, doing things right. As a result, overall I am a winning player. Over the course of thousands of sessions I have won more than I have lost. I never think about that, however, when I'm actually playing the game.. That's thinking in terms of results, not the process. It's the process that is the most important.

Sorry guys, this was my feeble attempt at using a metaphor to drive home a point.