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Originally Posted by Serendipity
Another thing is women seem to work out their problems by talking about them. I've found when they start doing this it's best to just be quiet and listen. The natural thing for a guy to do is to try to offer solutions. But they don't seem to appreciate that. It's better to just help them to get it all out and not offer advice unless they ask for it.
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Yes, be quiet and listen to her. However, I'd always offer my opinion before she asks and I wouldn't be biased. If she was a cunt, I'd have no problem telling her what I genuinely think. Yes, she may get pissy at first (or she may say "fuck your right"). Both of these situations show you're not afraid of what they think and aren't pussy footing around so not to upset her.
Either you've just saved yourself a lot of time finding out if you'd be cool together or you've made a deep connection with her and helped her out.