Mark Manson - Models. Read it. Particular emphasis on the 3 fundamentals.


Then change your life.


I'm washing my hands of this thread, you're making me have huge unintentional egotistical moments due to the obvious fact that you know absolutely nothing about betterig your life.


I'll add, kudos to you for having a goal of wanting to pick up women. But without a solid foundation or at least a positive build up to a solid foundation, girls will simply not care because you have nothing to offer them whilst they have their lives together (or at least more together than you). So why would they stoop so low to a guy who'd potentially be a huge burden to them. Answer; they wouldnt.
I'm not saying that its up to the guy to offer the girl loads of stuff, put her on a pedestal and all that shit. I'm simply saying that it works both ways. If she's successful, she'll want a guy who is sucessful or at least is on his way to be successful. They look for secure guys, guys with potential.

Anyway. Mark Manson - Models. Read it.