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Post Speed Seducer Rules. - 14-10-2009, 01:12 AM

Here are the Speed Seducer Rules. I have them on flash cards and just thought I'd share them in case someone never knew about them. I've added a few extra notes myself (as seen in italic).

Speed Seducer Rule 1.
Always communicate with an outcome in mind!
When you talk to a woman don't do it to be flapping your lips! Think of the states you want her in then use your skills to direct her to them!

Example states could be; Flirtatious, Interested, Curious, Fun, Emotional, Logical, Creative, Physical, Happy, etc.

Speed Seducer Rule 2.
The purpose of your communication is to get you a result!
The purpose of your communication is not to give her an understanding. The purpose of your communication is to get you a result! Speed seduction works by manipulating and directing unconscious processes not by getting her conscious agreement. Leave arguing to her buddies.

Example results could be; Number close, bounce to another location, bounce to another venue, kiss close, fuck close, etc.

Speed Seducer Rule 3.
Speed seducing is fun!
The best magic is playfully done! If you aren't having fun with it, it isn't speed seduction!

Examples of fun; Being self amusing, being social, learning from the target, learning from practise, realising what works for you, realising what doesn't, overcoming sticking points, finding sticking points to overcome, etc.

Speed Seducer Rule 4.
Keep your skills a secret!
Speed seducing works because it is hidden and undetectable. True at very advanced levels you can tell them what you're doing and it will still work, but why give them the chance? Your aim is to get a result, not impress with what you know.

Very clear advice. Although some PUAs might want to talk about what they're doing to keep focused, it's prolly better to get involved in the interaction and stay 'out of your head'. Enjoy the sarge.

Speed Seducer Rule 5.
Be a stainless steel fist in a velvet glove!
Always be as low key as possible in application of your skills. Not "ha - ha I'm doing this thing to you" but "isn't it interesting how the mind works?" Soften, soften, and soften some more.

This is about how you frame what you're saying/doing with the target. Women naturally have good intuitions about men and know when men are trying to manipulate women. Its better to give off a good vibe than to be an ass about it. Just imagine an ugly trying to manipulate you into bed and you'll get the point.

Speed Seducer Rule 6.
Always go from least intrusive to most intrusive.
Don't start right off moving women's internal pictures! Do it only after first juicing them up with language patterns and/or anchoring.

Start with the basics then transition into the more complicated stuff. Allow a women to become receptive to your game.

Speed Seducer Rule 7.
Don't resist what she offers... turn it around and use it as leverage.
Always use what's there - if she resists you by saying "I'm not ready" don't ask why! Find out "how" she makes herself not ready and disrupt and interrupt it so you can then lead her back to where you want her to be.

This is about being under the radar and taking control skilfully rather than bashfully. Dominate by means of seduction and not by being a chode.

Speed Seducer Rule 8.
Challenge is where the fun is!
What doesn't or isn't working is the doorway to new fun and power. Speed seduction grew out of things not working forcing me to look for what did.

What doesn't kill us makes us stronger. Take every interaction as something to learn from. We naturally learn from our mistakes.

Speed Seducer Rule 9.
TONALITY IS EVERYTHING.
Your tone of voice (inner and outer) must match your words! If you use a high, squeaky, irritating voice when you say "life's pleasures" you'll just piss her off! Learn to control your voice tone!

Voice tone is one of the simple, most fundamental tools a PUA uses to make things progress. Practise by speaking out loud in your own private time, record your voice and pick out what doesn't aid you in PU, it's all about putting conviction into what you say, expression is key.

Speed Seducer Rule 10.
You can't get her in her state unless you first get you in your state.
Speed Seduction depends on you first being rooted in a powerful, alive, upbeat, confident state. Work on your affirmations, visualization homework & breathing exercises to insure you'll be where you need to be to put her where she needs to be.

If your in a low state you need to get you into the state described in this rule. Get up breath deeply, activate your body physically, get yourself in the right mood before you go to sarge. Music could help here, it's all about your attitude.

Speed Seducer Rule 11.
Train 'em and Tame 'em.
If it's only for the short term, then training them (getting them hot for you when you want them to be) is enough. Long term you want them tamed - thinking of you in longing lustful ways even when you aren't there!

Once you make a target's BT spike you need to remember how to do it over and over again. You can do this by either using anchors or using a post hypnotic suggestion. To tame a target is to be the dominant man in her life. Pretty much common sense.

I hope these serve some use to you.
If you have anything to add or to ask any questions then please do so. I still have a lot to learn myself so that is why I posted this.

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