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Originally Posted by BroadswordWSJ
What happened in the end?
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We exchanged numbers, it was a no brainer. I text her a couple of hours later and told her it was cool to meet her. Her response was ‘Me too, I was astonished!’. She sounds excited :P
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Originally Posted by BroadswordWSJ
Why do you think you've started making excuses? That doesn't sound like you? A bit rusty after being away from it for a few months?
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While I might be rusty, I will make up excuses not to approach. Most of it is me protecting myself from negative emotions, or worse still protecting my self-image, so I will say things like ‘Oh I’m tired/I’ll do it at the wkd/she’s probably in a rush… etc. All bullshit. The main excuse is a much bigger picture and comes from me not even considering the hotter girls as I will not feel entitled to them and assume they will not be interested in me. With an attitude like that, they won't.
If it doesn’t sound like me, I guess it’s because now I am trying to face up to my fears more. Time get honest with myself.