Originally Posted by Barney Stinson

To me, if you do them targets everytime you go out, its a regime.


I think you shouldn't concern yourself about quantity and focus more on the quality of conversation.
Seems you're ejecting because you think the job is done once you've approached and got a +1 on the tally as Stein said in his first paragraph. It all relates to the point, you're going into your head.