Fucksake here we go. Its not a fear in the typical "Oh Im too scared to approach girls", its more like I always rationalise it out.

Its a cliche to quote The Blueprint but I will. In it he says "You can be sitting with your buddies nice and chill then you see a girl but your chill, relaxed, all that effort of going over there and speaking etc is a lot". I think he calls it inertia.

That's me, Im always going about my day and used to the habit/routine of doing that without approaching. Its a tough habit to break. Sure I have 'fear' but I also had/have AA when in the club yet I get over it every single night. Whether Im drunk or not.