thanks lad, iv'e been chatting to a few girls on a dating site already and i have had 1 night out so far. I opened a few sets but they didn't go anywhere. I took a girl up to dance for abit but then her friends pulled her away from me lol. the night wasn't the best as there was hardly anyone out the day after halloween, still good craic though. I need to be abit more upfront like i used to be, although it's still early days.