Well that's good as well. I'm not sure what a constitutes the connection I'm meaning. I suppose it's a feeling I get after talking to them for a while. It's basically sexual attraction I suppose. I've got to be excited and interested enough to want to pursue it. Even if she's beautiful that might not be enough on it's own. I could still lose interest. I think it was different when I was younger though. If she had a pulse and wasn't running away that was probably enough