Looking forward to reading the reports dude. Just take my comments in context. It's what I find works for me. Or rather I don't know another way. I've never been able to joke around then bounce girls out of clubs. I know a lot of guys can. Even before asking for a number I always need to feel that there's some deeper connection first. If there's not I just don't ask. Maybe that's a flaw in my game but it's just me. The advantage I think is that they're less likely to flake but I will get much fewer closes than other guys. I can accept that's the way it is. Play to your strengths as they say.