I've not got an issue with tarrot or anything else. I want to help Guyver and I think we all do.

We just want to get to the root of the problem. I think D!ce was on the money in that it's basically a self esteem/ self image issue.

We're not looking to put anyone down. We're not having a go. It's just a wake up call.

But there's compassion here as well.

I think as someone said it to me before, you have to be prepared to lay your ego on the line in this forum. And it helped me. You can lick your wounds then be honest and we can help out.

I agree, the joking can go a bit far sometimes. But the intentions are good.