Did you Pansy out? Is that even the question you're trying to answer.

I think what your trying to say (and correct me if I'm wrong) is l"I really wanted to get laid, I focused on one girl all night but ended up by myself, what coud I have done differently?"

Let me ask you some more relevant questions:
What was your goal for the evening?
Did you have fun doing what you did?
Did you, at the time, do what you want regardless of goals or others?