Agree with everyone else and standby what I said before.

A committed relationship is where you are exclusive to one person. You don't sleep with anyone else. If you "want" a relationship its because you've found someone you like and ready to settle with exclusively. You can't have it both ways.

I didn't read it all but you said women where that you don't totally consider sleeping with someone else cheating, and that cheating is only when you are spending time with them or taking them to dinner. Are you crazy or on drugs?? Making out with another women is cheating, just kissing is cheating. Going on a date is cheating. You could almost say exchanging flirty and dirty texts is borderline cheating.

The way your talking, you shouldn't be looking for or deserve a relationship until you get your head right. If you were in a relationship with another women, would you be okay if she was also bonking other guys? (Of course if you were both together but sleeping with others you couldn't class this as a relationship).

Find women to have casual sex with, who are open to it and are aware its not an exclusive thing. And sort yourself out.