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Originally Posted by kowalski
What I am saying is the problem is not with how the guy feels about the girl, it is with how the guy feels about himself.
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Deffo! It's a different way of looking at the problem. If you feel good and confident about yourself then you will be independent of others opinions.
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Originally Posted by Flake
I think guys need to get over the fear of negative judgement yet retain the excitment created by meeting an amazing woman.
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Nice summary
Just to add something to flakes comments, I'm not disagreeing just clarifying something so people don't take a negative perspective on somethings.
You don't want to go in there thinking "I'm not her type" you don't know that until you have approached her and even then you can change her mind with your awesomeness. Only till afterwards can you allow yourself to think that you weren't her type or your personalities didn't match.