You don't need to over-think this.

I'd normally start out at a coffee shop/bar for a few drinks and good conversation. This way, if the night is going bad then you've only bought a drink; hardly costly.

If it's going well then just after 30 mins or whatever, take her bowling as well.


Personally first dates are drinks and getting to know each other more at a face to face level.

I once paid for me and this lass to go to the cinema on a first date. Originally it was just drinks but she couldn't shut up so I decided I wanted to see a film instead. Also found out she had a very bad temper when I didn't text her back.