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To put it simply see this girl and see where it goes. Enjoy it for what it is. Don't pressure it to turn into a relationship or just sex. Feel free to push it in the direction that you wish but don't be upset if it doesn't turn out as you hoped.
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I think I misunderstood dale, but I'm still confused. What's the difference between applying pressure to get a lay and "pushing" in that direction? There's a difference between just talking to a girl, being friendly, just talking about things as they come and on the other hand actively game-ing, flirting, pushing in the direction of attraction and intimacy.
I consider nova's suggestion a push in the very least. What am I missing here?