I thought that was a good description Jynx. If you want, I've got an opinion on confidence and the whole drinking thing etc, we'll chat soon. But it's all about having a Huge Ego WITHOUT being arrogant whatsoever - dreadful current example but you could do worse than thinking about Tom Cruise. The fact that he's 5'7", 50 years of age, very successful, and although certainly very good looking is no 'pretty boy' with a perfect body should say something to everyone...