09-06-2013, 06:11 PM
while I agree with Stein, I want to add that if a beginner (like the OP) goes direct in the wrong way, he WILL end up seeming creepy...
to uncreep: hold eye contact for a bit (confidence) but occasionally break eye contact (do not stare: creepy), flash a big smile (do NOT flash a big cock, that really is creepy), talk slowly and clearly, be chilled out and confident
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