Hi - I'm new to this forum, 27, and looking to get involved, particularly in the Oxford area. I could use some tips on which sites/groups are best for someone like me, relatively new, but aware of where he needs to improve and willing to put in some hard work.

I've been working with the material and the advice given on MASF and several of the various products/books out there, but only on my own as I've been abroad a while. So I'm very keen to meet similarly motivated people and get/give feedback and constructive advice. I'm approaching this very much from the self-improvement perspective, having always fallen into the trap of being the neutral 'nice guy' or else getting stuck in long-term relationships that have done nothing for me.

Incidentally I did a search for oxford on these forums... got nothing. Not even my own posts.

Anyway, that's me. Good to meet y'all.