tv, media etc.. is moulding and changing peoples beliefs, perceptions etc.. This is social conditioning. There is only 1 girl I have ever met that genuinely hates sex, she is a Russian I met in Yekaterinburg and her reason is 1 of medical. Tho I have never met a gypsy, I've always considered them to be 'down for anything' - like many other women. Try to break away from the social conditioning side and focus on developing your own beliefs and mindsets through experience.
I don't know about what other people think but I think that you should respect the girl to some degree, whether its a follow up text or whatever. I mean, was she actually good enough to meet again? - since you seemed pritty keen on meeting her again whilst at the bar.

Nice field report but yeah next time with better spelling haha