Dude I spend 4 months reading books, listening to Jefferies, DeAngelo, Style, etc.. I don't consider it time wasted but fuck I could have been out there getting familiar with it all instead of listening and reading shit.

I understand people have their different ways so I respect the differences but they work so I see no point in disagreeing with people in things they've tried and tested.
Plus, "you're giving back" that's awesome, it should be welcomed.

Well I'll admit, it was stupid of me to dwell over 1 girl ... Shah - I know what you mean; I was just playing hard to get haa!