Sapmi
I'm beginning to realise that all the books I've read are severely out of date when it comes to the approach the guys in the community have. Some of the contrast of differences totally confused me. It's almost gone back to old school; all about the experience. I'm also looking at Tyler's stuff but if I'm honest I haven't really had enough time to study his work's in depth.
Is there a newer, more up-to-date book that could be recommended?

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Watch the videos on youtube, and go out. Just be accustomed to talking to women. Don't put pressure on yourself. These videos are best to watch, only if you're actually going out and hitting on women. Forget everything you've read, especially when you go out and talk to them! Thats it. Believe me things will fall into place for you. If you cannot talk to strange women, then practice saying "hello" and smiling! May not happen over night, but as long as you're talking to them, you will see good things Good luck man, you deserve it!