If your going to do internet game then ...

Use a paid-for mainstream site like match.com

Only contact women who contact you first (or at least have browsed your profile without you browsing theirs first) - if you arn't getting many then your profile simply isn't good enough. This is really the key to making online game time efficient - you will get about 10 times the conversion rate than with contact you initiate yourself.

Exchange 3 messages, reply to her messages one day after you get them ideally when shes online.

On your 3rd reply message end it with " ... lets talk directly, my number is xxxxx". This will yield her number in reply (or her calling/texting you) about 80% of the time if youve got this far.

Phone her and make a specific arrange to meet within one week. Keep texts to an absolute minimum until after 1st date.