Working on myself, becoming a better person, and being a value giver is a journey I am taking, by experiencing all different aspects of life and seeing the world through my own eyes. I have changed in a big way and continue to get better. To me getting better means, helping people to feel good (male or female) around me, about themselves. This is as much a placebo effect as going to the gym and getting hench. All these big muscled guys in the gym. Its all placebo!

The way I see it, some of this stuff really works and is more sophisticated than "placebo effect", which I find is a very throw away comment. That's my view. Unless you have a statistical scientific argument, with proper group sizes and measurable effects, it really is hard to tell. Without the proper scientific methodology, I'll put my success to the hours of hard work I've put in to improving myself.