Okay fair play, well I'm offering you my honest opinion and I prefer constructivly put criticism and signposts than blunt opinion and black and white gospel 'truths'..

Quite like what you said about the misconstrued joke kind of what i was going for before Pussying out and adding the wink

I apologise for getting pissed off at the 'childish' remark but I guess that's because I have no intention of changing that, it's just me to be playful and a lot of people get pulled into it even girls much much older than me, I accept it probably doesnt work well over text (atleast the way i tried) but i do get results being playful in that way face to face..

Lastly I don't want to be spoonfed just answer what your comfortable with me asking, like I said, signposts. I appreciate examples but only as reference points to better understand your advice..

Db