If there are so many men around, yet are just standing drooling at the girls, be the standout guy who approaches all the chicks & you will become the cool muthafukka making all the guys jealous that they are so shit & want to be as cool as the cool person they see who is going up to all the girls

Even use the chodey muthafukkas to your advantage, as your opener

"hey girls, not many men here tonight is there"

If there is loads of men in the gaff, they will get the jokey sarcasm