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Originally Posted by kowalski
You say "least attractive of my actual girlfriends" and "pretty but fat", it is the only specific you give as to why you don't see her as a possible permanent thing.
If she wasn't fat, would she then be in range of what makes you happy in physical attractiveness? If yes, you might give get that opportunity first. Or are there other things that aren't where you need them to be too?
Peace,
kowalski
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I probably shouldn't have made that post, I was rather drunk and feeling lost.
Weight is something that can change, that can be changed, if that were the only thing I'd be encouraging her (actually I kind of am, I'm currently on the path to being slim again) Whilst she is a really nice person, she's still not 'right' for me, however I'm not sure what 'right' is, but I know this isn't it.
For the record I've tried to break up with her 20+ times(not recently), she's always managed to pull me back. I know what needs to done, I just need to build the courage and resolve to do it.