Originally Posted by kowalski

You say "least attractive of my actual girlfriends" and "pretty but fat", it is the only specific you give as to why you don't see her as a possible permanent thing.

If she wasn't fat, would she then be in range of what makes you happy in physical attractiveness? If yes, you might give get that opportunity first. Or are there other things that aren't where you need them to be too?


Peace,

kowalski