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Default 09-11-2012, 08:11 AM

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Originally Posted by nova View Post
Follow up game/date update: The art gallery & bar



This morning I get some voice messages from her on the WeChat app asking how I am and what I'm up to. I tell her I'm off to an art event this evening and to come join me. We walked towards the art gallery and after about 3 mins of chat she said she was going on a trip to London next week, and told me she was wondering if she should stay at her girl friend’s house or guy friend’s. Then she said that something had ‘happened’ in the past with the guy. I asked her what, but she wouldn’t say. In line with her telling me about guys hitting on her in Aldi and on the bus, it seems she might have been trying to make me jealous again.

Anyway, we went to the gallery and watched an artist’s talk. This was interesting enough, and their was a bit of fun kino between us at times slapping and punching each other. Then we left the gallery and I took her to a new bar. There she launched into various converstions about relationships and my views on them. She said she was writing a blog about it all. She then asked me how much I would invest in a girl in getting her, and this turned into a fun comparison of a girl's value in stock market terms.

She then started talking about what she saw as her trouble with meeting guys, and how they were never at the right time and in the right place. To me it started to seem like she was talking about me. She asked me if I was looking for a relationship, but I told her that I don’t just make a conscious decision about if I’m in one or not, and I think they develop naturally. We then start talking about girl’s knickers design and my views on that, then about girl’s boobs sizes. That bit was pretty damn cool.

As we chatted the kino was strong, facing each other, hands on her legs, back, etc, and good eye contact. Probably should have tried to kiss her in the bar... So we walked towards her house, said bye, again she wouldn’t let me kiss her. Kissed her on both cheeks this time, and then she told me I should shave.

When she asked where should she of stayed, you should of said " Stay at the guys, you will have a smashing good time " with a big smile on your face

I cant beleive she wouldnt net you kiss her, She is playing silly little girl mind games to amuse her self using you.

Like others have said, next time your talking and she asks to meet up just say sorry ive got a date, If she reacts to it tell her " well you didnt want to kiss me so I thought you wanted to be friends "

The big problem is, she is the dominant entity in this " relationship " she decided not to kiss you, it should be the other way round. thats the mindset you need to have

She feels like she is in the position of control . whther this mindset can change I dont know, but if not you just need to leave this one dude


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Last edited by ninjaelephant; 09-11-2012 at 08:15 AM.
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