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Originally Posted by nova
In the last few weeks this has changed and some of the girls have now brought a flirty side out of me. I have built on this so much so that I can initiate some good flirtatious banter, something I was at a loss with before. In line with this development I have now set about arranging all my dates via text.
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Don't you find texts a bit of a pain to arrange dates? Why not text 'i'll call you soon to meet up' or something and then call a few days later.
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Originally Posted by nova
I had been trying to escalate with girls often assuming me being ‘alpha’ would be enough to win them over.
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You weren't being alpha then, you were just acting that way. Which I can imagine would be creepy as hell.
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Originally Posted by nova
The girls I am dealing with are fairly reserved socially, so rushing any physical contact can be suicidal. I have had girls very attracted me running scared because of me running a dumb ass kino routine.
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Why not just get used to touching people? No routines, not forced and not in a Saville kind of way. Touching is good, but only when you're doing it without thinking about it. Not a big clumsy hand on the knee during an awkward silence...