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Default You must lose girls in order to get girls - Physicality - 24-08-2012, 02:54 AM

When first starting out, the intention can lean to having as many good interactions as possible. This is not a bad thing, but could lead to:
  • Approval seeking/Entertaining/Impressing instead of Expressing
  • Lack of intent
  • Lack of physicality
And other unexpected actions.

To get better at this, you need to be prepared to lose the girl. Sometimes things will just not go your way, but the key is to keep pushing on.

Physicality is the key - there are plenty of articles on the forum about this so will not go into detail. If it is unnatural to you, it will feel weird at first and may result in more rejections. But push on, it will eventually become natural.

I'm not suggesting that you should be physical for the whole interaction - just enough to establish a Man-Woman interaction rather than a Friend-Friend one. If she's into you - push on and escalate - but if not, it's still a positive - you had the balls to do what most other chumps in the club can only dream of.


'I've never known a man worth his salt who, in the long run, deep down in his heart, didn't appreciate the grind, the discipline.' - Vince Lombardi

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