It's interesting, because once I broke up with my girlfriend I got quite sexually explicit with one girl in texts. She said I was being a sex-pest (in a jokey sort of way) and moaned about it to me. This made me reconsider my stance (perhaps incorrectly). I think whether she was being genuine or not, I let her dictate to me and stopped me developing my more honest sexual side.

I seem to remember one PUA fella saying, 'A girl is more likely to forgive you for being a man, than being a pussy'.

This is my aim now.