OK, so I've been back out in the field and playing something of a numbers game by hammering it with the approaches and number closes in the day time. For me this is a good start. But something that has been annoying me is the lack of follow up. Out of the 9/10 closes I've had, only 3 have responded, but I feel them also slowly flaking on me (although I can be impatient to be honest). So it's time for me to work out what I need to do next. I don't want to just be comfortable approaching and chatting with the girl.

I was watching some video of a British dude called Tom Terero last night chatting about day game and dates. He broke down how he likes to talk to girls and I found it an eye opener as a lot of it was the opposite of what I was doing. So from this I've found:

- I need to show more interest in her as a person, not just her as a hotty. I am showing plenty of intent, but maybe not enough interest in them beyond sexual objects.

- I need to stop telling them so many fucking stories about me, and get them to tell me about them. I've found I walk away with a number, but don't know much about them really. I think they probably think the same, and in essence they have no 'investment' in me. Plus I have no idea what to say to some of them after!

- Me telling them so many stories about me is coming across as rather needy, like I'm trying to sell myself to them. It should be about me finding out about them, they should be the ones impressing me with their stories.

- Part of this is getting them to open up on a more emotional and personal level and tell me things they might not tell other guys. This is going to take some practice as I know this is not something I do much of. I will try to ask how she might have felt in a certain situation, or what her dreams are.

- Maintain more eye contact. Often, as I'm talking, I'm thinking and looking away. Time to hold eye contact and listen to them tell me about themselves. This will obviously show confidence.

All in all, this feels like it could work out a little easier. I have been working hard to entertain and tell them stories. I should be just chilling, listening, and talking about her. This is what i shall be trying this week anyway. I'll let you know how I fair!